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Old 08-14-2003, 06:45 PM
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ei pips out der! share ko lng sa inyo ung ngyri skin! at bka my mga advice kau,comments...

mron n rin akong mga npasukan na mga rlationship... pro evry time na my mga gustong mga manligaw.. di ko alm kng ano mga sa2got ko sa knila... mron nga mga nanligaw na mhal ko na pro di ko cnagot.. na mga pnagsisisihan ko..

ewan ko.. alm nyo kc ako ung tao di agad ngti2wala eh.. di ko kc alm kng ung mga nanliligaw skin eh seryoso or hindi eh.. di tlaga ako mkapagtiwala tlga dyan sa mga bgay2na yan.. kc based from experienced n din eh.. at tkot n rin ako msaktan pro nsasaktan dn nmn ako pag nwala skin ung tao na mhal ko na... na pwde nmn n mging kmi...

ktulad n lng ng isang ito.. ngaun lng to... nanligaw sya skin at mtagal tgal n din un.. at ntutunan ko n rin syang mhalin.. pro ntatakot tlga ako kya binasted ko sya.. tma b un?! sa tingin ko hnd... kc nmimis ko sya... prang my kulang smula ng binasted ko sya.. sanay n rin ako n lgi syang nandito sa tabi ko... at ngaun sising sisi ako.. so pano 2?.. pno ko maoovercme ung fear k? pra di na mngyri 2ng mga bgay na to.. kc ako rin nmn nsasaktan eh.. mali ba ko?.. pro di ko lng tlga maalis ung tkot eh.. help...
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Old 08-15-2003, 06:36 PM
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i was once like you.. afraid to take chance.. scared to take a risk.. di mo naman kasi maaalis yun eh. it's ok to have fears.. we all have that naman eh. but if you allow urself na magpatalo sa fears mo, you'll end up losing the people you love. lam mo ganyan talaga, learn to accept the fact that loving isn't always a happy feeling. there are times na masasaktan ka. learn to cope with it.. learn to accept the truth. love has it's thorns. but you see, in order to appreciate love to its fullest, we have to accept the thorns that comes with it. walang mangyayari sa yo if yung fears mo lang ang iniisip mo. you'll never be happy if you lock up yourself with your fears. free yourself with your worries and learn to love. it'll teach you to be strong. it may not always turn out good pero mas maganda na rin un kesa naman you'll have regrets for the rest of ur life right?
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Old 08-15-2003, 07:39 PM
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kasi kelangan mo munang malaman who you are, what do you think of yourself and how do you think other people percieve you. wut do i mean by that? sino ka ba sa palagay mo? may reputation ka bang pinaninindigan? bakit kelangan mong maisip na hindi magtiwala sa mga lalaking yan? ano ba situation niyo ng family mo? ng parents mo? babaero ba dad mo? sinaktan na ba niya ang mommy mo? how about you? may lalaki na bang minahal mo ng sobra at sinaktan ka? marami pa kong questions pero sa palagay ko we have to root it all up.

taking your fear out of your system would not be as easy as taking out a piece of crap out of your mouth. ang sakin lang if you would really want a sincere advice, hindi kita kayang tulungan lang sa pamamagitan lang ng pag popost.

i would not promise you na pag nagkausap tayo ang stuff e masosolusyonan na yang prob mo, im not the answer. it also needs your will to help yourself. but it's safe for me to say, i've somewhat been there, done that. sa iba nga lang aspect.

but to sum it all up, i would not ask you to trust your intuition. lalo na kung may sasagutin ka na sa isa sa kanila. and to think mahirap na rin makahanap ng totoo and sincere guys nowadays. so might as well spare yourself from the pain that is ready to creep on you once na sumugal ka sa love love na yan.

pagusapan po natin yan. oh well, if you would want to. hindi kita pinipilit. but sure as hell i am willing to help.

pm mo ko if you would want to. para at least i can keep track of your response. ingatz!

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Old 08-15-2003, 09:39 PM
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i was once like you.. afraid to take chance.. scared to take a risk.. di mo naman kasi maaalis yun eh. it's ok to have fears.. we all have that naman eh. but if you allow urself na magpatalo sa fears mo, you'll end up losing the people you love. lam mo ganyan talaga, learn to accept the fact that loving isn't always a happy feeling. there are times na masasaktan ka. learn to cope with it.. learn to accept the truth. love has it's thorns. but you see, in order to appreciate love to its fullest, we have to accept the thorns that comes with it. walang mangyayari sa yo if yung fears mo lang ang iniisip mo. you'll never be happy if you lock up yourself with your fears. free yourself with your worries and learn to love. it'll teach you to be strong. it may not always turn out good pero mas maganda na rin un kesa naman you'll have regrets for the rest of ur life right?


hi!!... thanx sa reply mo ah... alm mo nkatulong k din... pro gulong gulo prin ako hngang ngaun... pro tnx prin.. atleast my nalaman me dhil sau!! thx.. hyan mo gwin ko un.. tnx tlga!
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Old 08-15-2003, 09:41 PM
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kasi kelangan mo munang malaman who you are, what do you think of yourself and how do you think other people percieve you. wut do i mean by that? sino ka ba sa palagay mo? may reputation ka bang pinaninindigan? bakit kelangan mong maisip na hindi magtiwala sa mga lalaking yan? ano ba situation niyo ng family mo? ng parents mo? babaero ba dad mo? sinaktan na ba niya ang mommy mo? how about you? may lalaki na bang minahal mo ng sobra at sinaktan ka? marami pa kong questions pero sa palagay ko we have to root it all up.

taking your fear out of your system would not be as easy as taking out a piece of crap out of your mouth. ang sakin lang if you would really want a sincere advice, hindi kita kayang tulungan lang sa pamamagitan lang ng pag popost.

i would not promise you na pag nagkausap tayo ang stuff e masosolusyonan na yang prob mo, im not the answer. it also needs your will to help yourself. but it's safe for me to say, i've somewhat been there, done that. sa iba nga lang aspect.

but to sum it all up, i would not ask you to trust your intuition. lalo na kung may sasagutin ka na sa isa sa kanila. and to think mahirap na rin makahanap ng totoo and sincere guys nowadays. so might as well spare yourself from the pain that is ready to creep on you once na sumugal ka sa love love na yan.

pagusapan po natin yan. oh well, if you would want to. hindi kita pinipilit. but sure as hell i am willing to help.

pm mo ko if you would want to. para at least i can keep track of your response. ingatz!

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hi! ng pm ako sau... bsahin m n lng dun... i realy nid ur advice.. kc nhi2rpan n rin nmn ako d2 eh... tnx ah.. at pinkinggan mo ako... salamat tlga...
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hi!!... thanx sa reply mo ah... alm mo nkatulong k din... pro gulong gulo prin ako hngang ngaun... pro tnx prin.. atleast my nalaman me dhil sau!! thx.. hyan mo gwin ko un.. tnx tlga!



ei no prob. take your time.. di naman basta-basta kasi mawawala ang mga fears natin eh.. even nga when u'r with the one you love na.. parang nadadagdagan pa.. pero what's worth it is u have someone to share na ur fears with.. pray ka for wisdom sis.. in time u'l find urself and happiness. goodluck.
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Old 08-16-2003, 11:38 AM
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I agree with, sis. Personally, I'd rather be careful about the men I trust... especially with all that I've been through. I am a softie at heart eh. I easily get swayed by words, and that's really crazy. I know I cannot always exhibit myself that way. Hey, if kelangan magtaray, magtataray ako. Immediately assert yourself and lay the groundwork for your suitors to know what they are getting into. Make them feel that you are opne to loving and being loved, but you are not the type of person they can mess up with. It takes a while, though, to get the hang of it and sometimes you do have to go through rough patches ( or lets just say rough men) that will bruise your emotions but there will be that one loving, special person that will heal all that bruise and will make all that patience and openness to love worthwhile.
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Old 08-16-2003, 01:22 PM
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It takes a while, though, to get the hang of it and sometimes you do have to go through rough patches ( or lets just say rough men) that will bruise your emotions but there will be that one loving, special person that will heal all that bruise and will make all that patience and openness to love worthwhile.



well said dearie...


to sis sex'yPeep:

there will always be that someone who'll be worth all the risk. but you'll never know unless you try. never take the coward's way out. love and be loved. but make sure that the person is worth it ha?

you'll never lose in loving... you might lose the person you love, things may not turn out the way you planned it.. things may bound to disappoint you.. but hey, there will always be memories to keep and lessons learned so as not to repeat the same mistake again.
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sis, love is always a risk. if you let fear rule your heart then you will always have regrets. you will always lose your chance at happines.

try to be strong and conquer the fear... take it one step at a time... and remember that its not always a bed of roses. there will be tears, and arguments... but there is always making up to make things better after...

its only when we face our fears that we conquer them. its only when we love that we can be loved in return.

seize the day! just... love!
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Old 08-17-2003, 04:31 PM
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wow...mahirap nga kalagayan mo...

ol i can say is, just face it...
then accept it...
tapos na yun eh...
you have to move on...
ganun lang talaga ang buhay...
dont worry, marami pa jang iba...
may plano pa si God sayo...
and i'm sure it's a better one...
PERO kung mahal mo talaga siya, and you know na may way pa para mag-cross uli ang paths nio...why waste tym?? malay nio tinetest lang kayo ng tadhana di ba...

o cge na...nagiging corny na 'tong pinagt-type ko...
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Old 08-17-2003, 07:23 PM
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well said dearie...


to sis sex'yPeep:

there will always be that someone who'll be worth all the risk. but you'll never know unless you try. never take the coward's way out. love and be loved. but make sure that the person is worth it ha?

you'll never lose in loving... you might lose the person you love, things may not turn out the way you planned it.. things may bound to disappoint you.. but hey, there will always be memories to keep and lessons learned so as not to repeat the same mistake again.


ei sis!!! grabeh tlga ah!!! mraming salamat tlga!!! unting unti n rin me nkakapag adjust! alm mo ba khpon lng mgksama kmi eh... tpos bsat gmwa sya ng mga bgay n tlgang sasabhin mo n love nya tlga ako!! en uknow wat?... na aaapreciate k kng ano man un... unting unti na ulit nbubuo ung trust ko s knya... grbeh... sna 2loy 2loy n 2... pro di prin gnun kdali un... pro salamat tlga!!! Mwah!!!!!!!
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Old 08-17-2003, 07:26 PM
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sis, love is always a risk. if you let fear rule your heart then you will always have regrets. you will always lose your chance at happines.

try to be strong and conquer the fear... take it one step at a time... and remember that its not always a bed of roses. there will be tears, and arguments... but there is always making up to make things better after...

its only when we face our fears that we conquer them. its only when we love that we can be loved in return.

seize the day! just... love!


hi sis!!! tnx for da time na ginigol mo pra bshin at intndhin tng sitwasyon ko... en tnulungan mo rin ako... salamat tlga!!!
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hi sis!!! tnx for da time na ginigol mo pra bshin at intndhin tng sitwasyon ko... en tnulungan mo rin ako... salamat tlga!!!



youre more than welcome...

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ei sis!!! grabeh tlga ah!!! mraming salamat tlga!!! unting unti n rin me nkakapag adjust! alm mo ba khpon lng mgksama kmi eh... tpos bsat gmwa sya ng mga bgay n tlgang sasabhin mo n love nya tlga ako!! en uknow wat?... na aaapreciate k kng ano man un... unting unti na ulit nbubuo ung trust ko s knya... grbeh... sna 2loy 2loy n 2... pro di prin gnun kdali un... pro salamat tlga!!! Mwah!!!!!!!



uy! that's good news.. i'm happy for you.. basta relax.. dnt worry too much... time heals all wounds sabi nga nila.. in time, makakapagadjust ka rin. *muah*
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lam mo parehas tayo, ganyan din ako noon, kahit mahal ko wala akong pakialam, binabasted ko... takot kc ako, aside from magtiwala, takot akong masaktan.. pero sinubukan ko, ang saya pala.. ngayon ang iniisip ko nalang may pagkakataon akong iparamdam sa kanya na mahal ko siya.. i-try mo, ang saya... pero cyempre dun sa taong mahal mo.. kung hindi natin susubukan hindi natin malalaman.. kung masaktan man, at least alam natin na hindi tayo yung nagkulang.. pero cyempre make your best choice, piliin mo kung sino yung karapat-dapat!...
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