Something Stupid
By: Kulasisi
Date: Feb. 04, 2002

Sex is part of human nature. It's not stupid. Pre-marital sex is a natural occurrence, it is also not stupid. Getting pregnant at a time when you haven't finished school yet & when you are not ready to have one-- this is stupid. My cousin is getting married soon cause she got herself pregnant. A condom costs how much?! A freaking 5 pesos. You can get 3 rubbers for 5 pesos, and you can choose your favorite flavor. A five-peso rubber would have made a difference. I can't believe they haven't learned anything from school! In fact, she didn't learn anything…

Having a child is a serious commitment, something that cannot be a result of trial and error. Being young-- the hormones have this rush that is so unbearable that you need to release. Lust composes 75% of your being when you are young... A touch here, a kiss there… you are willing to experiment, you heightened the feeling-- getting lost into the emotion and the new feeling..Until all you can sense is the need to let it out. I have long accepted the fact that my cousins would have sex with their bf's/gf's, anyway.. Sex is a part of life…However, I haven't readied myself that SHE would get pregnant. Get marry at an early age, yes.. It was predicted that she will get marry ahead of us… but that is AFTER she graduated not BEFORE. I don't pity her cause she is young and I know that she's aware of the consequences of her actions. I pity her dad the most-- he's been working his butt to be able to let his children attend school. To finish school and to work and help in the expenses.

Luckily, her in-laws like her. I haven't met the Hubby yet nor the in-laws but I will soon enough. Haaaaay… I'm lucky to be educated enough when it comes to s-e-x. I got my friends.. hehehe.. they have taught me well. A new baby in the family.. Another blessing.

Practice SAFE SEX.